Have you ever heard about this law?
Serious study by a lecturer at Stanford University "Michael Welch" on a group of children aged between 4
and 5 years, where well-being between taking :
One piece of biscuit now, or two pieces of biscuits after 20 minutes.
Most of the children chose to take one piece of biscuit directly.
After fourteen years, were followed up these 'children', who have become in the last year almost secondary, result was :
The result was:
Who chose to wait and took over the desires and took two pieces of biscuits,
they succeeded in their lives and they were happier and less tense and more self-confident
and stronger to cope with crises and positive interaction with them and more self-reliant
and more powerful and stable before provocations, in addition to their large educational
attainment, reflectingskill force postponement of gratification, as opposed to the first
team where poor self-confidence and strained relations with others in addition to the
deterioration of their scientific.
The control of these children on their desires has grown with them and make them successful in their lives.
Why postpone gratification ?
The patience of the candy and the ability to resist self is the ability required to leave play
and forced self on studying the ability required to adjust the emotions and not to dump
anger act or say bad is the ability required to rein in self towards lust food and for the
sake of good health and body shapely permission: fromimpossible the existence of
impressive successes and great achievements without the left willpower and restraint
and emphasizes Daniel Goleman in his wonderful book smarter sentiments, saying :
there is no psychological skill deeper and stronger than the skill to postpone gratification and resist the impulse.
Postpone gratification skill scalable and aids to strengthen self-control push is the use of God first, then sensing the beauty and personal self-contentment.
True story:
It is said that a girl approached her wedding date, he was invited to a grand occasion and when it's dinner time.
The dining table was filled with delicious meals.
At the moment of conflict withstood the girl
and only eat a bit of fruit
and when asked about the secret of this mighty force
said I imagined myself as I was walking on my wedding dress wedding with agility! Butterfly
